Welcome to my Home Page! I hope the following will give you a better understanding of thought reform and my approach to helping individuals make a fully informed choice in a way that is consistent with the ethical standards that myself and my colleagues who have worked so diligently to develop. In addition to my commitment to these ethical standards, I also have a deep commitment to the recovery of individuals who have been part of a thought reform program, a group that was psychologically or spiritually abusive or an abusive relationship. To those of you who fit into that category, I want you to know that you're not alone. The key to our recovery is education -- educate yourself about thought reform, about cults, about how such influence can and does effect individuals. And be patient with yourself in the recovery process. Remember, in coming out of such a situation, we face three difficult life transition stages:
an identity crisis;
grief (loss of one's commitment to the goals and people of the group, loss of one's sense of purpose in life, loss of people one came to consider "family" in the group, loss of belonging); and possibly
And along with education, we need support -- support of people who have been there. This page and the links provided will point you in the direction of helpful resources available to you. Please be sure to visit my "Recovery Issues" page. To those of you who are concerned about a family member or friend's affiliation or participation with a questionable group, I hope this site will also point you in the direction of valuable information and resources. If you are clergy and are helping former cult members, please read my Open Letter to Clergy. To all who visit here, I value any feedback or questions you may have. Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Experience: Carol Giambalvo’s interest in cults and thought reform began in 1978 when her step-daughter began exhibiting a drastic personality change following becoming a devotee in ISKCON. She began researching cults and thought reform and lectured in local high schools, churches and civic organizations. The more information she gathered on the indoctrination processes and thought reform used in cults, the more concerns arose about her involvement in est and The Hunger Project. In 1983, she and her husband, Noel, left their associations with est, The Hunger Project and Sterling Institute and began a personal search for information to aid their recovery process. Since 1984, Carol has done exit counseling and writing in the field, as well as serving as director with several organization’s boards, organizing and conducting recovery workshops and working with hundreds of people who have walked away from destructive cults. Personal: Carol is married to Noel Giambalvo and currently resides in Florida. She is the parent of two children and the step-parent of three, with seven grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. She is currently retired from family intervention work, but serves as a consultant and Director of Recovery Programs for the International Cultic Studies Association (ICSA) and serves of their Board of Directors, as well as serving on the board of reFOCUS.